Losing anyone is hard; I am here to guide those left behind through the process in their own time.
Grieving for each of us is a process my goal is to make that as easy as possible walking you on the journey together.
Remembering a life is personal, I create ceremonies that represent there story.
When I am notified of a passing I make contact with you to just get some finer details; then we can arrange a time to meet up when you are ready.
At that time if you cant call me, feel free to send e a text and we can talk when you have a moment.
When we meet up, I am with you for as long as you need, I can make tea and coffee; hand out tissues & hugs until you are ready to chat. Before we delve into the details, I want to hear all about the person we are remembering. When the time is right we can start going through the details of the day, service and the little things that make this bespoke.
I am with you before the service, through the service & graveside to conduct, guide and be there for all of you.
In all honesty I try not to, but have been known to cry with you. Call it being a human and that is where my passion stems from.
Who you have conduct a service is completely up to you. Funeral homes are a business like all of us and they have there own staff. However if you prefer a more personal touch, you can choose any funeral celebrant and the home will take that element out of the invoice and services
As those left behind, you have a choice as to when you would like to say good by, advise the home and they can keep your loved one in there care until you are ready.
I have; had the pleasure of having terminally ill people come to me way in advance, because they wanted to choose who was there supporting there family through.
I have a process for this and when I am entrusted into this role, it is the most rewarding thing I have ever done.
A normal booking at a chapel is approx 45 minutes, if you feel & I will guide you. That you need more time for stories, photos and the remember your loved one. You can book a double time slot for a small cost. So you know you have got the time.
Once I am notified, I call who ever has taken the lead role, just to check in and get some finer details. Then I leave it up to you; for when you are ready to meet and chat about the person we are remembering and what they would have liked the ceremony to look like. I am with you from the initial call, our meetings, in the ceremony and graveside with words and tissues and honestly why i try not to I even bring my own tears.
You can either press the contact me button at the top of the page or Call me on 0413 611 479
If you cant talk at this stage, that is perfectly fine. Feel free to text me.